The Wheel of Consent
A FOUNDATIONAL PRACTICE FOR RELATING
with Marcia Baczynski
Dates: 11 – 13 April 2025
Venue: The Center, Noordhoek, Cape Town, South Africa
The Wheel of Consent is a groundbreaking model of relating that brings greater clarity and authenticity to our relationships in all areas of life.
When you engage with another — whether a lover, friend, or colleague — are you doing what they want you to do or what they allow you to do? What is the difference, and why does it matter?
The Wheel of Consent is a groundbreaking model of relating that brings greater clarity and authenticity to our relationships in all areas of life. It creates a practice of separating out receiving and giving, which will challenge you, surprise you, and teach you a lot about yourself! As you become exquisitely aware of your desires and limits and how to communicate them, you will be free to make more embodied choices.
About Marcia Baczynski
Marcia Baczynski is a skilled facilitator, educator, and coach with over 20 years of experience helping people cultivate deeper connection, intimacy, and self-awareness. Marcia is a faculty member at Shakti Shiva Academy, where she teaches Fundamentals of Embodied Facilitation and has contributed to the development and co-creation of the course content. As faculty at the School of Consent, she specializes in teaching the transformative Wheel of Consent framework, guiding participants to clarify their boundaries, embrace their desires, and foster authentic communication. Marcia’s engaging and compassionate approach empowers individuals to overcome shame, navigate relational dynamics, and build consent-based interactions. She has co-authored Creating Consent Culture: A Handbook for Educators and facilitated over 1,000 workshops and events, impacting thousands of lives worldwide. Learn more at www.askingforwhatyouwant.com.
This workshop will include curriculum, discussion, and practices to support you in embodying these skills:
- Create a felt sense of safety in your body
- Connect to what feels good and brings you joy
- Learn how to take action for yourself or for another, and knowing the difference
- Notice your tendency to go along with what is being done and reverse it
- Be mindful of others’ tendencies to go along with what is being done and respect their limits
- Notice, value, and voice what you want, what you are available for, and what you don’t want
- Learn what power is (and isn’t), making friends with it, and using it beneficially
- Access parts of yourself that have been hidden away that are ready to be seen, appreciated, and healed
- Express your desires, limits, preferences, and willingness with more nuance and play
The Wheel of Consent is best experienced somatically — in the body. We will include the option to learn through touch, and, of course, you never have to experience touch you do not want — ever.
Our venue:
The Center, Noordhoek, Cape Town
Nestled in the tranquil beauty of Noordhoek, Cape Town, The Center offers a serene and inspiring space for personal growth and connection. Surrounded by breathtaking views of mountains and lush greenery, this venue provides a perfect sanctuary for introspection and learning. Designed with comfort and mindfulness in mind, The Center features spacious workshop areas, cozy communal spaces, and a nurturing atmosphere that invites relaxation and rejuvenation. Its peaceful setting allows participants to step away from the busyness of daily life, making it an ideal location for Marcia B’s transformative Wheel of Consent workshop.
The Schedule:
Friday 11 April: 6pm - 9pm
Saturday 12 April: 10am-6pm
Sunday 13 April: 10am-6pm
There is a 75-minute break for lunch, and several shorter breaks throughout the day. Tea and snacks are provided.
Bring your own lunch to enjoy amidst the tranquil beauty of The Center’s lush garden, a perfect spot for relaxation and reflection. Alternatively, take a short stroll to the charming Noordhoek Farm Village, where you’ll find a delightful selection of restaurants and delis offering delicious lunch options to suit every taste.
Investment:
Early Bird until 28 February 2025
ZAR4900 | $400 | €380
Full Price 1 March 2025
ZAR 5500 | $450 | €425
*limited to 20 participants